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Uploaded: Thursday, January 17, 2013, 5:25 PM Updated: Sunday, January 20, 2013, 6:32 PM
Bullying affects more than just the victim
Bullies and bystanders also see long-term problems
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by Glenn Wohltmann
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 | If bullying were a disease, it would be an epidemic in schools.
National statistics from 2010 -- the latest available -- show more than a quarter of all kids have experienced bullying, and that more than 30 percent experience bullying once a month.
Nationwide, 13 million kids will be bullied this year, according to the Bully Project, which was formed in the wake of a 2009 suicide of an 11-year-old in Georgia.
Three million children -- 160,000 every day -- miss school because they're afraid of being bullied, according to the U.S. Department of Education.
Bullying seems a precursor for criminal behavior, especially for the bullies. National statistics show that boys identified as bullies in grades six through nine had one criminal conviction by age 24, and 40 percent had three or more arrests by age 30.
Anecdotally, a story close to home may show that a bullying victim acted out in a violent manner. On April 5, 1984, the same day that Steve Carlson is alleged to have killed Tina Faelz, a former friend testified that Carlson was bullied himself, tossed into a dumpster at Foothill High School after a confrontation with members of the football team.
Both bullies and their victims show an increased risk of suicide, according to national and international studies.
Bullied teens are at an increased risk of suicide, now being called "peer-abuse driven bullycide." Victims of bullying are between 2 to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than non-victims, according to Yale University studies; a study in Britain found that at least half of suicides among young people are related to bullying.
At least one international study indicated that bullying victims can carry those scars into adulthood, where they can show up as symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder.
Even being a witness to bullying can be harmful, making the witness feel helpless, or that she or he could be the next target.
Six out of 10 kids witness some form of bullying at least once a day, according to the American Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Children (ASPCC) and at least one study shows that students who watch their peers get bullied could become as upset, if not more so, than the victims themselves. That's according to a report in the December 2009 issue of School Psychology Quarterly, which is published by the American Psychological Association.
Students who watched bullying -- name-calling, kicking, hitting, spreading rumors and threats of violence -- were more likely to report "greater psychological distress" than bullies or their victims, according to the study, which surveyed 2,002 students ages 12 to 16 at 14 public schools in England. That study also shows that bullies and bystanders may also be more likely to take drugs and drink alcohol.
Beyond that, bullying is illegal. California is one of 46 states with anti-bullying laws.
It's also among the 41 states that have created anti-bullying policies for schools. In 2011, AB 9 -- known as "Seth's Law" -- was signed by Gov. Jerry Brown. That law requires every school in California to have anti-harassment and anti-discrimination policies and programs in place.
The law, which went into effect July 1, 2012, is named after 13-year-old Seth Walsh who, because of bullying, committed suicide in 2010.
Under AB 9, schools must take complaints about bullying more seriously. The law requires schools to include in their complaint procedures and methods for receiving and investigating discrimination and harassment complaints.
Schools are now required to act on discrimination and harassment complaints so that investigation and resolution may be reached quickly, and faculty and staff at schools are required to intervene when they witness acts of bullying.
California law has also cracked down on cyberbullying, using social media and other electronic methods to harass, taunt or embarrass others. School officials can suspend or recommend expulsion for students who engage in harassment using electronic devices, whether it's done on or off school grounds.Are you receiving Express, our free daily e-mail edition? See a sample and sign-up for Express.
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Posted by Bill, a resident of the Danville neighborhood, on Jan 21, 2013 at 3:19 pm Bullying either by student to student of by teacher to student is rampant. When parents try an do something they are most often met with the "kids will be kids" response. Schools are required to make an active intervention and protect the child no matter what. If you are hitting a dead end as a parent or a student let someone outside the school know about it. To get things done you often have to hold those responsible feet to the fire. Contacting the press can be invaluable as schools hate negative publicity.
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Posted by Tom Cushing, a resident of the Alamo neighborhood, on Jan 21, 2013 at 3:56 pm I would second Bill's motion, and add that the School Board has ultimate responsibility for ensuring the proper implementation of District policies, including those specifically against bullying. Here is the SRVUSD webpage on Board meetings: Web Link
To summarize it, they meet twice a month, on Tuesday evenings, and each session sets aside a time for public comments, limited to 3 minutes each. You can say a Lot in three minutes, ask them to follow-up and commit to attending the next x meetings until they do. I am not suggesting that they would intentionally blow-you-off; I am suggesting that the "squeaking wheel" adage is true. Here are the meetings for the rest of the school year:
January 29, 2013
February 12, 2013
February 26, 2013
March 19, 2013
April 9, 2013
April 23, 2013
May 7, 2013
May 21, 2013
June 4, 2013
June 25, 2013
(... and while you're there, please ask whether they implemented those policies with affirmative, age-appropriate activities, as they intended back in 2010, to foster a positive learning environment in which all participants may thrive -- thanks!)
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Posted by Diane, a resident of the Danville neighborhood, on Jan 22, 2013 at 6:48 pm When my son was a Charlotte Wood student and was being bullied, the current administration mentioned that they were starting a student ambassador program to help with the issue. It wasn't going to start until after he left, but I have often wondered if it got off the ground. He was bullied in elementary school, middle school and the first couple of years of high school. It was awful to drop him off in the morning knowing I couldn't protect him. I so feel for parents who are in this situation now, and I appreciate Tom for his suggestions. If enough parents attend these meetings, you would not only be able to speak about your concerns, but you would meet other parents with the same concerns in the process. You might even find new friends for your kids, and ending isolation is a great way to discourage bullies.
If it is any consolation, my son finally started making friends in high school, and is now a very compassionate and well adjusted adult. The best of luck to the parents and kids who are dealing with this now.
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